Something to think about...

“Remember, your raising an adult...”


I read this statement today from another article I was reading… this was something that made me step back and think. I am truly raising young adults, someone’s roommate, someone’s husband/wife, someone’s dad/mom … yikes!! That is a lot to take in. Do not get me wrong I know every single thing I do will influence how they are molded, but sometimes, OK most of the time I have a hard time picturing past tomorrow.

When I stopped this morning and thought about this, I thought of some of the things I hope Taylor does that I do not do for her daddy. I also thought of some of the things I wish Braden would do for me that he does not, and I hope lane does for his spouse some day.

Where oh where is that fine line between letting them be kids, run amuck, and remembering I am raising an adult? Should I no longer allow them to leave the living room a mess as we walk out the door? Should I no longer allow PBJ for supper 4 nights a week because well it is easier for me then cooking something up in 10 minutes as we head out the door. Am I supposed to make them lay their cloths out the night before, get their bags and items ready for the next morning? Do I make them help me figure out what the plan is for the week?

NO! They are going to be OK. They know we all have chores that need to be done. Correct me if I am wrong but, part of being the mommy is doing half of what is listed above? Planning the week, laying clothes out, doing the laundry, keep the house picked up, (yes with their help) and most importantly loving them unconditionally.

I honestly feel as though if I show my children how to love, they will have a great base to grow from. Anyone who knows my kids knows how loving they are. I have had several people tell me how jealous they are of the love Lane shows me in front of his friends. If he and Taylor both show me that much love, I know they will show their spouse that much as well.

This does not in any way mean I think I can kick back and relax.. OH NO! WE still have a tough road ahead of us. I do know Braden and I have WONDERFUL children. Children who know how to love, know how to care and are willing to be support to anyone needing it. Can you ask for much more out of a four and five year old?

I have some pretty neat "adults" at my house....